Even a small step in the right direction counts. The best Valentine’s gift for young families? Getting on the same page.
As a Certified Financial Planner™ practitioner, I meet with clients from all walks of life. One of the things I say to all my clients is, “I’m never too busy to meet with anyone you’d recommend.” Which, of course, is a nice way of saying – “l’ll meet with anyone as a favor to you.”
Usually clients have a pretty good idea who we’re after from a prospecting standpoint, but on occasion, I am asked to meet with a client’s grandson or nephew – someone who may not be in our “target audience” as it relates to practice growth.
But, I’ll always gladly help them.
Why I’m Telling You This Story
Last week, I had the privilege of meeting with a young couple – Jack and his lovely spouse…Jill. (We’ll change the names to protect the innocent). They were the typical American young family – just out of college, a young child, tons of college debt, a handful of credit card debt, no real savings, and a meager job just to pay the rent. They looked like deer in the headlights when they walked into my office.
I know the type – I used to be Jack and maybe you were (or are) too – young, arrogant, (heck, I’m still that one), confused, unsure of oneself – so much unknown, you don’t know even where to start. That was Jack and Jill, except they wanted help, but they had no idea where to start.
And frankly, hiring our firm wouldn’t help them that much either, and I told them as much. They looked exasperated – I could see it on their faces – “if this guy can’t help, we’re doomed.” So we sat down and started making a list of all the small things – things you can do with under $1,000 – to get the ball rolling in your financial and personal life. I’m narrowing them down to my top 5:
Build a portfolio early
If you search around, you can find a nice discount broker who won’t rob you in commissions, and then buy two exchange traded funds (ETFs): one which tracks the S&P 500 and another that follows a bond index. For example, 5 shares of SPY or IVV (S&P 500 funds) and 2 shares of AGG (Aggregate Bond Index) will give you a 70% equity / 30% fixed income portfolio. That’s quite a start.
I explained to Jack and Jill that if they start early, a little guy called “gains” can work in their favor. Make your money work for you as quickly as possible and you’re reap huge rewards down the road.
Pay attention to tax shelters
If you need the money, save it into a spot where you can get it. But taxes can drain from your returns, so if possible, shelter the funds.
Small steps…investing even $1,000 in a Roth IRA and adding $100 a month from age 22 to 65 would turn into $478,000! As we’ve mentioned several times, you can access your contribution at any time so it could double as a little cash reserve if you need the money.
There’s also good news at the end of this tunnel: in most families, they’re able to contribute more later as they earn more cash. Set a good foundation with small amounts today and
Cash is the key to your debt repayment
I’ve seen too many people attack debt with every dollar, only to find the dishwasher broken or the muffler dragging behind the car. Where do you go for cash then if you’ve drained all of your funds?
Right back into debt.
Don’t start the habit of pulling plastic out of your wallet. It gets easier and easier every time you do it. Keep a cash reserve. By cash, I mean cash. With our increased reliance on ATM machines, credit cards, etc., a simple power outage can cause quite the disruption. Live through the next Zombie apocalypse by keeping $500 or $1,000 in cash at home in a safe. But remember, this is for emergency only! I’ve met too many new investors who spend their emergency funds on vacations or credit card repayment. That’s not why that money’s there.
Speaking of emergencies…with a young family, don’t forget insurances. I told Jack and Jill to focus on disability insurance at work and cheap term life insurance.
Manage your energy
Huh? Are you talking about vacation? Jack and Jill can’t afford anything! Are you nuts?
They thought I was crazy at first, but like I’ve said…I’ve been there before. Let me explain. When you’re buried in debt, the last thing you need is an expensive, week long trip. But you need to keep a clear head to move the ball forward, so take smaller vacations…but still take some!
These vacations aren’t because you deserve them. You don’t. They won’t help your debt in a direct way. But indirectly? You’ll notice a huge difference in your ability to attack your problems when you’re fresh and relaxed.
Find a deal to hop the train to Toronto or Chicago for the weekend if you’re in the Midwest, or Austin if you’re in Texas. Use a travel site like Hotels.com to book your reservation and save money. Take a quick cruise to the Bahamas. Remeber to do whatever it takes to keep away the cobwebs and return fresh. It doesn’t need to be expensive…it just has to be “away.”
Recent studies have shown a direct correlation between physical health and monetary wealth (unintended rhyme…happy Valentine’s Day!) If you’re lucky enough to have short commute – try a different method for a week and see how you feel. Could you walk? Ride a bike? Adding a little cardio exercise to your day will make you feel better and will improve your work attitude and output. Give it a try –if you rode your bike to work only 3 days a week and it was 5 miles each way, you’d ride 1,500 miles a year!
Educate your children
I told Jack and Jill that this was the most frustrating part of my job: meeting too many new investors who had no idea what moves to make first. Stop the cycle by helping your kids become money-savvy. Most people think I’m going to say, “Invest in a 529 plan.” Wrong. IF you do invest in a 529 plan, teach them to track the funds with you. Play board games that help them think about strategy and money. Let them sit in on your budget meetings. Track electrical output in your house and make it a game. Heck, invest in a Kindle from Amazon. They’re $150 or so, and if they’re young enough, sign them up for Amazon Free Time, (a service that pre-screens kid-approved content for one low monthly cost of $3). Don’t leave them alone with the stuff and expect your kids to learn. Make it family time with the Kindle, or heck, with a book. Remember those?
Recent studies have shown a direct correlation between physical health and monetary wealth (unintended rhyme…happy Valentine’s Day!) If you’re lucky enough to have short commute – try a different method for a week and see how you feel. Could you walk? Ride a bike? Adding a little cardio exercise to your day will make you feel better and will improve your work attitude and output. Give it a try –if you rode your bike to work only 3 days a week and it was 5 miles each way, you’d ride 1,500 miles a year!
Bonus: Communicate
The closest we’ll get to a good Valentine’s gift today is this: communicate. Especially communicate if you’re worried, but also when things are going well. Practice our weekly meeting plan. Real budgets are about keeping the family on the same page, not about dollars on a spreadsheet. Especially in married or cohabitating couples, I find that one generally knows what’s going on with the money while the other is in Fantasyland. Don’t make this mistake. When you both own your financial life,
Jack and Jill left looking relieved. They didn’t have to hire an expensive financial advisor and had a pretty clear road map on how to start down the road to prosperity.
Who delivered your first financial lesson?